Safety
Your safety matters.
Use age confirmation, one-tap reporting and blocking to help protect your experience. Never share sensitive personal or financial information.
18+ only
Everyone confirms they are 18 or older before chatting.
Report & block
End, report or block anyone in one tap, at any moment.
Community guidelines
Be kind and respectful. Harassment, hate, scams and unwanted explicit content are not allowed.
No chat history
Messages are relayed live and ONDATES does not save a transcript. The other person can still take screenshots.
Need help?
Message us directly on Gmail — we read every message.